In life if u watch you are always happier when you do things the right way. Most of our discussion today would be on how to build a proper relationship including some guidelines that will help you understand the boundaries you should consider in a relationship.
Types of Relationships: Acquaintances
I saw her just the other day and i knew i was in love. The way she walked and the way she talked, i couldn't resist, i knew it would be blissful. How could i miss with this sister?
lol this sounds so wonderful and romantic, but so untrue.
*******you cannot really love someone you don't know period.
what is expressed here is a simple attraction, i like what i see, but this is not love. Too many people confuse attraction with love and passion with substance.
Relationship functions on different levels and there are rules to this level, if you see someone for the very first time or you cross path from day to day but never really talk much, this person is just an acquaintance or someone you just happen to meet.
*****It just not make sense to hop into bed with someone you don't know *****
*****Would you open your bank account with someone you just met yesterday?
You certainly would not do because it takes time to establish that level of trust.
You don't fall in love with acquaintance because contrary to the opinion love is decision that u make after finding vital information about a person.
Many teenager/Adult actually see a pretty lady/gentle man and decides this is love, when it really isn't love at all, suppose the lady's name is crystal and shes so fine until she blows your mind, you think you're in love, and you tell all your friends this is it, and later on after you really get to know her, you find out shes a flirt, doesn't really care about you and in fact shes only tolerating you cos her friends feel you're nice and cute,
*****would you still be in love when you find out the truth?****
The answer is "no" because you were never in love in the first place.
Love may be influenced by attraction, but attraction doesn't mean love.
the most constructive activity for teens is talking.
Meeting someone for the first time or seeing someone every now and then is just an opportunity to get to know them and to see if you really like them. you should decide whether the relationship should progress beyond the level of acquaintance only after you get to know a person. when making an acquaintance use that medium to communicate about everyday life with no strings attached then you would know better if to proceed or back out.
Don't ever discuss your intimate life with an acquaintance, because most teens today the most important thing to do is to relate to the opposite sex and how to treat a guy or lady right. If you are 17 years old you don't burden yourself down with complexities of commitment because there is so much you need to learn, you've got school and a career out there in the future.
****don't get too serious and tie yourself into a relationship that will probably only last, until you both get a little older and wiser****
How many times have you seen friends fall in love in high school, and fall out of love just few weeks or months later? when you're young you will probably fall in love or think you've fallen in love at least 2 or 3 times a year, for some of you, weekly basis, Be careful.
Sex is more like a gift, and you normally give gifts to people you know well and love and whom you feel you can trust, you cannot trust strangers or people you don't know well, you cannot give gift over and over again to strangers, otherwise the gift would be of little value and eventual ready for the trash bin. Remember most teens fall in love 5 to 8 times in a space of 6 months and that is because you tend to give your gift to a stranger who doesn't care.
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