Isn't it just so tempting to re-invent yourself when you meet someone new who really tickles your fancy. and you try to be what you're not. You could become really sophisticated and mysterious. You might manage to pretend what you're not for a month or two but its gonna be tough keeping it up forever. Just imagine someone pretend to be what he or she isn't just to date someone and not wanting to lose the person for a period of 2 years and that would definitely suppress his or her natural sense of humor.
Would you really want a lifetime of lurking behind some sham personality you created just for the fear of not wanting to lose the person you care about. And suppose they find out you're fake in a month or two, when you finally crack open. They are not gonna be impressed nor would you be either, and you wont even be happy if someone pretends to be someone else and at the end it cracks open and you find the truth, you might just leave the persons life for fear of danger and insecurity.
Lets learn to be organised and not negative, changing you behavior is fine and good, the rule is about changing your basic personality and that won't work and you would end up roping yourself and trying to do it convincingly.
The truth is always be your self , you might as well get it all out in the open now. And if that's not what they are looking for, at least you wont get in too deep before they find out. Don't fake be real and you will attract someone who really loves you for you whether rich or poor. Be real to yourself because that's your unique charm.
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