Many people believe that long distance relationship is never gonna work, your family may discourage it and your friends might wanna talk you out of it and not to take it seriously cos you might end up heart broken. Nobody said its going to be easy the extra distance distance makes thing more un-achievable, things could get complicated and you could get sad about the whole event and lonely but however the extra distance make the simplest thing the sweetest.
Long distance relationship may be tough but its got its own surprises too, to keep your love alive and strong. Here are some tips to keep your long distance relationship strong.
Avoid excessive communication:
It is unwise to be over sticky and possessive, you two dont really have to communicate for 12 hours a day to keep the relationship going, Many couple think that they need to compensate for the distance by doing more, this isnt true cos it might only make things worse soon you would get tired of loving.
See it as an opportunity:
If you wanna live together, you first need to learn to live apart, Anonymously view it as a learning process to the building of the both of you, see it as a test for the love you have for each other, you should believe that through this experience the both of you would be bound by love together and you would even be stronger.
Communicate regularly and creatively:
Greet each other goodmorning and goodnight everyday, on top of that try to update your partner on your everyday life and happening, to up the game send a picture or an audio or video clip from time to time, by putting this effort you make the other person feel loved and attended to.
Talk dirty with each other:
sexual tension is undoubtedly one of the most important things between couples, sexual desire is like glue, that keeps both parties from drifting apart, not only is sex a biological need, its an emotional one as well, keep the flame burning by sending each other teasing sms filled with sexual inuendo.
Avoid dangerous situation:
If you already know that going to clubs and keeping late nights would displease your partner, then you should either 1 not do or 2 tell your partner before time so as to re-assure him or her, do not be careless about this sort of matter because your partner is only going to be extra worried or suspicious.
you could set yourself a trap unknowingly by clubbing or keeping late night by going out with someone whose flirting with you, you need to recognize the danger before entering the situation. dont just listen to your heart, listen to your mind.
Do things together:
Play online games together, sing to each other on skype, video call together while taking a walk outside, go online shopping together and buy each other gifts, you really have to be creative and spontaneous about it.
Make visit to each other:
visits are the highlights of every long relationship, after all the waiting, yearning and abstinence, you finally get to meet each other to fulfill all the kissing, hugging and holding hand etc which are common to other couples but extra intimate to long distance relationship, it would be like fireworks, glitter bomb, butterflies and rainbows everywhere.
Have a goal in mind:
what do we wanna achieve at the end of the day, how long are we gonna be apart, what about the future? this are questions you two need to ask yourselves, the truth is no couple can be in a long relationship for ever, eventually we all need to settle down.
Stay alone with each other:
talk about your feelings or fear, insecurity, jealousy and apathy, dont try to deal with things all by yourself, be open and honest with each other, let your partner help and give you the support you need.
Keep track of each other social media activities:
liking eachother photo on facebook and instagram, tweet each other, share things on each others wall, show that you care and be cool about stalking each other.
Get a good messaging application:
this is extremely important because texting is the most frequent way now to communicate, you need a good messaging application on your phones that allow interaction beyond word and emoticons. eg:bbm, whats app etc
Give each other petnames:
Because its cool and keeps the lovey - dovey going.
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