Teens don't understand the difference in hormones

       One of the biggest difference in males and females is a lack of understanding their hormones, you may ask what is the difference. For starters the dominant male hormones is Testosterone (write that word down girls). The dominant female hormones is Estrogen (write that word down guys). This hormones cause a male to act masculine and a female to act feminine. Testosterone makes the male to be aggressive and sexually stimulated by sight. Have u ever noticed how a guy would stare at every girl that walks by, especially if she looks good? Estrogen causes a girl to want attention, kind gestures, nice words, compliments and flowers .Estrogen causes a girl to want to play with barbie dolls, and to act feminine girls wants to be pursued rather than pursuing boys because their hormonal makeup is different. Men are men and women are women we don't want the roles being crossed because each has its purpose and this leads to what we call "good time versus relationship syndrome".

A guy sees a girl and testosterone tells him to go for her for a good time. A girl notices a guy pursuing her and Estrogen tells her she may have found the relationship shes being looking for. Through ignorance "good time meets Relationship" and they misunderstand what each other wants. Good time ends up with a good time (male) and relationship ends up empty handed because she didn't realize he didn't love her and only wanted a good time.

Lets face it most people don't have an idea of what love is, especially young people. you may feel like you do but 5 years from now you would look at yourself and say "boy i was stupid". you may know attraction, infatuations and good looks how to play doll house and may not know how much at all about what love really is.

If girls understood Testosterone they would move much more carefully. If guys understood Estrogen and the damage they can cause with the simple words they often don't mean, they would move much more cautiously and have more regards for the feeling of the opposite sex.
'good times and relationships" can never survive because they are different hormones with different objective. Its only through information and understanding that the gap can be bridged effectively.