To be honest, i am not sure if this is entirely true. Some people do know the instant they meet their future partner and that is the person they've been looking for all their life but it doesn't work like that for everyone.
The rule is if you're not sure if this is the right person don't take a gamble on it, because if they are the right one you will know it even if it takes a bit of time. In other word if its right you will be sure, either straight away or a bit later - but you will know.
If you're absolutely sure this is the right person the moment you clap eyes on them, you're very lucky. The important thing though is not to commit yourself until you're certain. How many divorced people have you heard say "do you know even in my wedding day i was wondering if i was doing the right thing"
Well i can tell you, if you're still wondering about it even on your wedding day, then no "you're not doing the right thing" what you're doing is a big mistake.
Its lunacy to enter into marriage when without even being certain about it.
If you aren't sure right at the beginning then that's normal, it may take weeks, months, or even years to be sure, its all fine, you shouldn't be making a permanent commitment when you're not sure. We are all different, don't be pressurized into making a decision before you're ready.
If this is the right person for you to be spending the rest of your life with, you wont be thinking about it. But if you're not sure you will definitely be thinking about it. Look before you leap.
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